life of third circle

there are 3 phase of life
1.born
2.live
3.die

and there are 3 phase of live
1.as child
2.teenager
3.adult

and then,there are 3 ways of dead in life
1.live wihout  listening & understanding others
2.pretending
3.and lost someone you love (damn you dead)

but there are 3 ways to born again
1.happy
2.happy
3.and happy